Thursday, April 12, 2012

What Makes a Man Fall In Love

A man doesn't fall in love with the woman he can live with. A man falls in love with the woman he can't live with out.

If you think it's the things you do that he can't live without, you might want to reconsider. Being good to a man simply isn't the key ingredient. So many women make their mistake here. They give and give hoping it will endear them to the man. They bend over backwards pleasing him. This isn't what makes a man fall in love. This is what makes you a doormat. A woman willing to sacrifice of herself to please another just isn't attractive, she is convenient at the most.

It's the woman that challenges him that men fall in love with. It's the woman who stands up for herself with feminine grace and feminine elegance that wins his heart. The woman that will show him with ease that she will not be a doormat. Men like to make women happy. It makes them feel good and makes them feel valued. Men fall in love with how you make them feel. If they can make you happy, they feel good. Think Tarzan running through the jungle pounding his chest and you get my drift.

It's not the things you do that make a man fall in love with you. It's the way you acknowledge, appreciate and accept the things he does that makes him fall in love with you.

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